I had lots of tests all came back negative. I was so worried and Google is the worst! Im 56 and post menopause.My doctor is going to retest in 3 months but ive been googling and now Im worried out of my mind! sadly the pain remains. Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. For me, faith too is cornerstone in this struggle. People sometimes find feeling statements extremely difficult. one of a million new and strange things that's happened to me that I didnt have an actual term for. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. I hear you. Thinking of you too! it started jan 2016 but past 3 months have beem horrible. Although there is some mention of the other persons behavior, the focus continues to be on the uncomfortable feeling experienced by the speaker. I still wasn't happy and wanted it investigated further and had a fibroscan done. I was having hormonal issues then. When I first started this menopause "thang" I was like "this is a piece of cake"! I've had perimenopause for the last two years. I used to get naseau but not very often now. Me too , i took propranolol for palpitaions and felt that im about to passout . It can drive you to the edge especially if you are googling. I-messages are frequently utilized as a way to resolve conflict without putting people on the defensive. It just feels like its never going to end! I am 54 and don't want to go onto HRT hoping things will start to ease now I have gone for a year without a period, wishful thinking! You can almost compare it to mindful . I NORMALLY have labs done every year but this year has been epic so I have not been in but have never had any bad labs (hope I don't jinx myself). Thank God autoimmune diseases have been ruled out. This can often help the person who is receiving the feedback feel less criticized and more open to making changes. do you feel good after taking only Oregano oil ? Nat Commun. I had lots of stomach issues with Covid, super constipated and it lasted for what seemed like forever but I also have belly issues with peri. but i have had every fear under the sun. I am going to get a second opinion from another doctor in the practice. The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user. WHY did I say that? Doctors didnt have a clue so i googled and next thing i had all these weird, crazy diseases.. Every day I feel like either the end is near or that I will be committedit's just insane. Ive been told by my male gynecologist that i dont have vaginal atrophy. I don't have headaches, a little congested but I don't think it's allergies. We are in this together ladies! I take a low dose of propanolol with no side effects and it does help. All of a sudden I had almost every one of the perimenapause symptoms. Hopefully it's the end of my period as I'm 53. Good luck to us ! "I feel stressed out when the house is so disorganized. You sound so like me I thought my lining would also be thickening, I am hoping that I will get some guidance after the tests are back. i have horrible nausea on and off all day everyday and no appetite!! Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use I feel like hiding and just hoping for my body to stop this storm. if so thats a big hope for me . I dont hardly have it anymore. What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality. Feeling statements can be helpful in both everyday communication as well as in therapeutic settings. Looking forward to a couple of days off over Christmas. I pray that we all stay strong and do what we have to be overcome this and progress to enjoying this change of life. It lasted for about 6 months and then new symptoms took over and the bladder issues went away. May be an avenue to explore if all tests have come back fine. Im 55; will be 56 in August. I dont want to use HRT. feel better and welcome to write anytime you like xoxo. Take care! I tell my doctors I think the anxiety and digestive issues are hormone related but they look at me like I'm crazy.I'm looking for a new doctor who is female and post menopausal that has a clue what this stage is all about. Perhaps the other person would start giving examples of how they do let her say what she wants to do, start complaining that they always do what she wants to do, or even complain back that she never asks what they want to do. Consenting to these technologies will allow us to process data such as browsing behavior or unique IDs on this site. appropriate medical assistance immediately. this will all pass so dont worry but get help if you need it. And tons of other symptoms but No hot flashes. I just stay in my room now. this seriously needs to stop. Instead, speakers should keep the focus on their own emotions, how the issue is affecting them, and what solutions might help. I get reflux and then I take a tums and then it stops the reflux but causes me to have a pulling nagging pain between breast and shoulder blades. My kids are attending school away and hubby also works abroad. yesss. i had the same fear about dying and losing my parents and it eventually got better and went away. Other researchers have found that couples that utilize "you" language during conflict discussions have less effective interactions. I have patches on my feet that burn, yet when I look there is nothing there, my body goes stiff and I feel like I'm swaying, I have strange feelings in my fingers, I have panic attacks with sob, sweating, fast heart rate every time I need a bowel movement. I dont have IC though, thank You, Jesus! i am glad to say while they can still come, they are at least frequent. I certainly don't feel that now. No cancer or ulcer found, thank God! I have had the same thing for 2 months now plus digestive issues and no explanation from the GP. Thank goodness for your reply. How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? Then COVID. I've had anxiety since little, so I'm ALREADY on meds for it, benzos. You know they are bad when you are asking for the alternating constipation/diarrhea to come back so you can be over the urinary symptoms! Hi Jamie, I get weird head pressure too. My doctors say they fodt worry about my levels unless it was 3 times higher. I never use to be like this. I have horrible health Anxiety been to the emergency room three times the last two years a month ago which was just recently they didnt do a ton of test but they just said you have anxiety but I just dont think anxiety causes this much pain but maybe it does!!! These I-statements should state how the speaker is feeling, connect it to an issue, and offer a possible solution. Moderator comment: I have removed the contact details as we do not publish these in the forums. Our clinical information meets the standards set by the NHS in their Standard for Creating Health Content guidance. I did an at home UTI test and it was negative so have any of you ladies had this. Hi Leisa: im now about 2 weeks post. Using feeling statements can help people assert themselves while reducing hostility. I have a rheumatologist appointment next Friday even though thankfully autoimmune disease has been ruled out. If i start bleeding again, please God no, i dont want to have to guess uf its the HRT or if im still in perimenopause and not menopausal yet. God be with us all. I found that what helped was Probiotic Pearls for women's vaginal and digestive health. Right now my biggest symptom is my bladder. Drs chalked up to migraine and or stomach bug. Treatment such as creams and pessaries are often very effective in helping the symptoms. googling this fills me with worry, glad to see I'm not alone, i also have been diagnosed with SIBOi spent so much money on the test, supplements, probiotics etc.since i have started my hormone replacement these issues have cleared up IDK, That's interesting Corinne the one thing that keeps me (semi)sane and that helps me think it's hormonal rather than something more horrendous is that on the rare occasions that I have a period these days, both the day before and on day 1 of my period I feel almost "normal". 348 users are following. Mahmoodi A, Bahrami B, Mehring C. Reciprocity of social influence. hope we all do . The best news us it came back benign. Gave up on docs office. I tried Cymbalta but again i googled as was terrified at some of the reviews. Is this normal or am I just losing my mind cuz it sure feels like it! I have pain in my RIGHT shoulder blade that comes and goes. My prayers are with all of us. hello, wow you seem to have a lot of the same problems I have I think theyre digestive anyway theyre in my stomach and in my back and on my sides and they move around a lot but it really hurts mainly on my right side the most and Im really scared theres something wrong!!! I feel like under the possession of an evil force. So weak nausea and feel like dying. my constant upset stomach/trapped air burping/ feeling unsteady when i walk is the worst one, amxiety, feel like i have ongoing flu. I've had it all my life, but it's really flared up now with the perimenopause. Just want a sprinkle of myself back so I can enjoy life (which is hard to do with this COVID political mess) again ya know? my doctor told me to make a will too and that this would help. I absolutely agree with everything that you said. just awaiting on results from a biopsys that was took from left breast yesterday , get results next tuesday , but praying and asking God for good result , thanx for reply , nobody quite understands as the out of things that can come from menapause. It's consuming my life as it's all I think about. I am so relieved to have found your post. Today I felt normal! I've done that too a few times. can be really tender when i breathe in deeply. Hi l am the same postmenopausal 4 years had negative smear in july one week later all menopause symptoms back with a vengance fear of death constantly panic hot sweats depression had to start ads citalopram 20 been taking for 6 weeks hope it will work cant carry on like this .Keep well ladies. The focus stays on the feeling, and the goal continues to be alleviating the uncomfortable feeling. When you say you know the feeling, do you feel really rotten too? No copyright infringement intended. I also get rib pain on my left side only, comes and goes. Each softgel contains broad spectrum hemp extract that provides a wide range of hemp's cannabinoids, terpenes, flavonoids, and other beneficial compounds. I just want to feel a bit normal with a good night sleep. I dont want to take HRT either. this sounds like me also, and gotten even worst with this scary virus!! Strange taste in my mouth and don't know from one day to the next what symptoms I will have when i wake up. I am 67 and started these symptoms in April after my doctor and I determined that it was not a good idea to still be on HRT at my age. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. There is no shame in taking medications when you need them. It will be 3 years in December since my last period. Strangely I don't have hot flashes yet but I'm sure they are around the corner. The shoulder pain was just from me sitting wrong and being on my lap-top with not very good posture. All the best x. I would love to talk with anyone about menopause. i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. im tired of being sick im praying hard to have helthy day and restful night . The anxiety (about health and dying) is ALL the time. I refused antibiotics for my Sibo because of some terrible side effects I had from antibiotics some years ago. Hi Sian: Im sending good, healing thoughts and prayers your way! My sed rate was also high over 120. So I just suffer. I believe in GOD, so I put all my faith in him. also another symptom of perimenopause is obtrusive thoughts with no factual basis. I don't know why I am not getting notification on responses. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. For instance, people often say, "You make me so mad," which typically causes a defensive reaction from the other person at the first word. I hope this passes because it does totally drain the life out of you. Dry mouth and burning tongue make it really hard to eat so I am losing weight. Now, anxiety has crept its way back in and is working over my meds, even stronger. im on HRT patch and anti depressant but i dont think this one is working so i may need to switch. Then the rush of adrenaline.. plus panic attacks in between. We will get through this together/apart and I can't tell you (to the moderators) how much I personally appreciate this forum.It has some nights made the difference of me going to sleep with peace of mind I am not alone! I don't own this song. 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